Hi, please doublecheck this thread we have here. We don't want to validate external addresses and decide are they valid/working or not, but we want option to blacklist and/or whitelist as you described in post from Aug 05, 2022 (year ago).
If I understand correct, this could be some config of spire lib side, and can provide option to allow communication ONLY to addresses that are OK - by matching to white/black list logic.